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How to be ‘sex-positive’

Last week I met Brighton and Sussex medical school’s final year students to talk with them about how to be ‘sex-positive’ in clinical contexts. Drawing on the work and ideas from the ‘good sex’ project the presentation addressed three key questions for clinicians to consider: What does it mean to be ‘sex-positive’? Why is it important to be sex-positive? How can we be sex-positive in practice?

We also looked at three short clips from an interview conducted with Brook Trustee and HIV and sexual health consultant Dr Rachael Jones. In these clips Rachael talks passionately about what it means to her to be sex-positive, why it is important and how she does this in practice. The clips are taken from the forthcoming final ‘good sex’ project films which will shortly be released. If you are interested in finding out more, read on for a summary of the presentation, watch clips from the interview with Dr Rachael and watch this space for more clips of interviews about why and how to be ‘sex-positive’ in sexual health work with young people. You can also download the powerpoint from the presentation here.

 

What does it mean to be sex-positive? 

  • Support young people to enjoy their sexuality without harm
  • Create an open and honest sexual culture
  • Celebrate sexual diversity
  • Adopt a holistic approach to sexuality

 

 

Why is it important to be sex-positive? 

  • Because sexual health is more than the prevention of disease, and unwanted pregnancy and includes the right to enjoy your sexuality without harm.
  • Because we need to be realistic with young people.
  • Starting with pleasure rather than risk offers a more inclusive (and more effective) framework for young people.
  • To enable young people to make positive informed decisions.
  • Its an essential part of safeguarding young people and supporting them to understand consent.
  • Because maybe no-one else will.

 

 

How can clinicians be sex-positive in practice and talk to young people about pleasure as well as risk? 

  • Find a language that works for you.
  • Include discussion of pleasure in sexual history taking and contraceptive decision making
  • Never assume
  • Ask simple exploratory questions
  • Use some of the great resources that are out there already.
  • Get some experience – shadow colleagues, support each other and confront your fears.

Interested in finding out more? Watch more clips from  interviews about why and how to be sex-positive on our previous post  Interviewing the pleasure experts or watch more from the interview with Dr Rachael Jones here.

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Good sex is…?

Our first film has been ‘officially’ released! Here is ‘Good sex is…? – a film made by a group of young people who used condoms, strawberries, cake icing and text messages (amongst other things) to bring survey data to life.  For more information about how the group turned over 200 survey responses into a 1 minute 40 second film see my previous post on Reanimating survey data: the good sex film.